Partner Betrayal Trauma

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I treat partners through a partner sensitive model, which focuses on you within the context of your partner’s compulsive sexual behaviors. 

Through our work together, you'll be gently supported and learn how to heal from the impact of betrayal trauma. 

I provide a safe place for you to process this painful experience while gaining knowledge and guidance for future challenges.

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More About Partner Betrayal Trauma

“The Partner of a Sex Addict has responses that serve as reactions to a stressor or that is traumatic in nature, in predictable emotional, behavioral and physiological ways as her/his mind and body attempt to survive and adapt to a dangerous situation, seeking what cannot be found; safety in an unsafe situation.” 

— The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts’ Trauma Specialists

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If you have any of these thoughts, feelings, or experiences please contact me, I can help:

  • A deep sense of painful betrayal

  • Anger, rage and terror

  • Insomnia

  • Lack of appetite

  • Stomach knots

  • Vomiting

  • Crying

  • Listlessness

  • Forgetfulness

  • Lack of concentration

  • Knowing what you see in front of you, but your partner denying it (gaslighting)

  • Lies and Dishonesty

  • Partner’s unaccounted time spent away from home or business

  • Trust Issues

  • Checking partner’s clothing, phone, financial statements, computer or whereabouts

  • Sex text messages on partner’s phone

  • Inordinate amount of time partner spends looking at internet pornography

  • Constant flirting

  • Affairs, cheating, and infidelity of partner

  • The sense that your partner has a double life

  • The inability to leave the partner

  • Vowing to leave the relationship if bad behaviors continue, then not having the resolve to stick with the decision.