This happens to be the number one reason why couples seek couples therapy. One wants sex more often than the other. I will carefully and thoroughly assess what, when and how this is (not) happening, and work to bring the couple to a place of satisfaction around expectations, frequency and quality of their experience. 

Sexual Anorexia or Hypoactive Sexual Desire is where a person, compulsively stays away from having sex at all, with anyone, or if they are in a relationship, with their partner. They will shut down any type of erotic touch and is even unavailable to discuss the topic. They are "too busy" or "too tired" consistently and are holding their partner hostage sexually. They want monogamy, yet have created a dead-end to the couple's sex life.

This is a catch all term that covers a large range of lifestyle love and romance choices. It literally means multiple loves. These relationships may or may not have a sexual component. Whether an intimate network, a primary, secondary or tertiary relationship, I can help you navigate your NRE (new relationship energy) while still enjoying your LTR ( long-term relationship) as well as your LDR ( long distance relationship). My goal as your therapist, is to help you feel comfortable within the lifestyle you've chosen.