From My Desk…
A place to find out more about my work and insights into the lived experiences of addicts and their partners
What is the role of sex therapy in healing intimacy issues after sexual trauma?
If a client is ready to talk to a licensed professional about how past traumas are affecting current day relationships, even with self, then this is the beginning of healing. And what does it mean to heal? Healing means …
Ready to Stop Lying?
Partner betrayal trauma is one of the most painful life experiences. Finding out the very person you chose to be intimate with, is lying and hiding their behaviors from you — acting one way and …
The Shock of Partner Betrayal
Partner betrayal trauma is one of the most painful life experiences. Finding out the very person you chose to be intimate with, is lying and hiding their behaviors from you — acting one way and …
What to do with the Outrage
Follow-up to my last post. As a therapist to sex addicts and partners of sex addicts, I find many of my partner clients are extremely outraged at the lack of accountability and ownership that is on display with the current …
Where are the Consequences?
Over the past couple of months, I have noticed a pervasive heaviness in body and mood within the collective, regarding the release and handling of the sex trafficking, pedophilia, misogyny, and complete …